I searched a lot on the web but didn't find any clear information about what I want to do, so I decided to create a post here.
I would like to put in place an ESP32 in a room, that would detect the proximity of a specific iPhone, and send an HTTP request to my home automation system to set the heating in eco or comfort mode depending on the presence of my son in his room.
Sending an HTTP request was the easy part, this is working fine

For the proximity detection of the iPhone, I want to use bluetooth. And I would like it to work like it works with my car and my iPhone: I paired the iPhone with the car once, and now each time I enter my car, my iPhone is detected, without having to do anything at all.
Could you please guide me on the way to achieve this?
Patrick